Truth series!

#5 Relationships doesn't come with any guarantee package!

"For peace of mind, resign as general manager of the universe."

Hell yeah! Being an authority for a simple organization is simple compared to this. When you start being taunting for the universe, your entire nerves oozes out stealthily. Such is the nature of flaws. You can find flaws in anything and everything. There are no guarantees for life. Relationships in a life is full of jabs, flaws, nibbles, ripples, and jamboree.  Nothing remains the same. Every cuticle has its own change. When you say you can resist change, it ultimately means that you are held up somewhere out in stale barn field, being failed to catch up with the trend. So, Appreciate it! Live along! Else you will be ruled out of life.

We never know what lies ahead. You can't really have control over any thing.

Human life is about development and evolution. Relationships are no way against or different to them. After all, you are not the same person as you were last week. Don't pretend as if everything is okay, when its not. Or gloss over problems in order to save your awry face. 

Truth series!

#4 People are as-is merchandise. Love them or leave them, Baby!!

"If the shoe doesn't fit  in, must we change the foot?"

Of course, it's irrelevant to cut off your foot. It's the same as this: you can only opt for what you need and not for others who want you to choose their needs. The real secret is people don't like changing themselves for others. Remember, what we resist persists. Do we go away unheeded of things that we come across, just because it's not appropriated to us? Instantly, the reply is -No. When you develop As-is the concept, the mindset to accept "as it is what you have" ,than to expect change in them can be discovered. Moreover, you must look at what exactly is that and see whether or not it would fit you right now. If it works, take it. If not, you must leave the crap and move on. You can very well suggest them for any change, but can't force them. Best way: Communicate straightly what ever is that you feel And leave it unheeded of your indulgence any further. Allow people to be who they actually are in order to allow yourself to show your actuality.

Keen relationships!

The place of temporal concerns is where we live in. The influence of divine power is the cause of many lives that is picturizing a World of reality and eternity. These lives have gradually developed the fetters between this world and the lives of people. Life of an individual is unique and is extinct from one another; yet we call ourselves with flavor of togetherness as –People. The flavor of it is magnanimous and so our lives have no impulse to exist from this livelihood. At every stage, a soul is in definite need of some relationship to hold on. It is because we have been habituated right from our protected shell of a Mother’s womb. A baby is very cosy to snuggle under the warmth of a mother unless and until he or she is convincingly exposed to the society. Catching our parents’ little finger with other hand siphoning in our mouth, we get amused for every little happenings. We then yearn for somebody to fill the space of our parents. The sprint of friendship is introduced there. Having experienced wide dialects of people with different connotations, aspirations, and inspirations and over all phenomenal attitudes, we are amassed with bountiful friends. Some become soul mates, few become just- mates and others are even engrossed with animosity at times. We are swimming in a pool expecting for it to reach the end point to raise our head out of the pool. It is where we are tested and justified. We are categorized as ignorant or taught ones based on our freight that we are stuffed with. Life of every single soul is scheduled in such a way that we have somebody to teach and guide us in every job we are up to. Life is stuporous when we shelter and develop our gifted relationships. Intellectuality lies in here when we strengthen or bond and nurture it for the wholesome of life. All these are perfectly natural and nothing is forcibly bonded. Right from motherhood or be it brotherhood or kith and kin relationship we have no job of deciding any relation. And it is sure that it budges well rather desiring for a person to bond with us. Every relationship has its own serenity and purity of love. After all, why do we go chase for a better half? expecting to be as good or even best than all other relationships that we were handling expertly  all these days. This new seeking has the nature to shatter all other beloved ones who were close to our heart. We become selfish with no intention at the cost of one being and lose our real characters of life.

             Self esteem is judged falsely, when we look for all luxuries and contentment through one door.