#4 People are as-is merchandise. Love them or leave them, Baby!!
"If the shoe doesn't fit in, must we change the foot?"
Of course, it's irrelevant to cut off your foot. It's the same as this: you can only opt for what you need and not for others who want you to choose their needs. The real secret is people don't like changing themselves for others. Remember, what we resist persists. Do we go away unheeded of things that we come across, just because it's not appropriated to us? Instantly, the reply is -No. When you develop As-is the concept, the mindset to accept "as it is what you have" ,than to expect change in them can be discovered. Moreover, you must look at what exactly is that and see whether or not it would fit you right now. If it works, take it. If not, you must leave the crap and move on. You can very well suggest them for any change, but can't force them. Best way: Communicate straightly what ever is that you feel And leave it unheeded of your indulgence any further. Allow people to be who they actually are in order to allow yourself to show your actuality.
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